As much as I love to decorate & pour so much of my time & energy into my home...
I wanna take a little break from my normal home improvement, DIY, craft project/post & let you in on another part of my life that I am also very passionate about...
You see, it was just over a year ago when my husband & I finally found a church home. We had been looking for quite some time & and were having difficulty finding a church
where we both felt comfortable.
We had two totally different church backgrounds..
him-Baptist and I-Catholic,
but in February of last year we visited a church in our
neighboring town & absolutely
FELL.IN.LOVE!!
I don't know how to describe it...
but you could just feel God's presence!
The sermon was phenomenal, worship was amazing, & the people
in the church were just so nice & so welcoming!
We felt so at ease & so at HOME!!
We immediately got involved in a small group, my husband got baptized a couple months later (something he had never done after becoming a christian) and I followed in August of last year, feeling like the baptism I had as a young child in the Catholic church was just not sufficient...
(Pay no attention to my belly...I was 9 months pregnant people!!)
I felt like it was something I had done because my parent's wanted me to, not because I had personally made the decision to follow Jesus myself. Since re-dedicating our lives to Christ, we have become very involved in the church & started serving in different areas.
In addition to our small group, I have also started in a
women's study group.
We have been reading this book...
If you've not read it...you are seriously missing out on
something special!
We are just in the second chapter of the book, but it has already touched me in so many ways! I wanted to share with you some of my thoughts on the book & some of the ways in which it has spoken to me as a woman...
The first chapter discusses...
The Heart of a Woman
The authors, John & Stasi Eldredge,
reveal to us the desires of women...
(1)To be Romanced.
(2) To Play an Irreplaceable Role in a Great Adventure.
(3) To Unveil Beauty.
You may think its silly to have these desires...to want to be romanced, to want to feel beautiful, but there is a reason why those desires are there. They have been placed there by your loving Father.
I'm not talking about your earthly father....
I'm talking about your Heavenly Father!
The book reveals to us that God has those same desires for us. He wants us to romance in Him, He wants our walk with Him to be a great adventure, & He wants us to see Him as beautiful and holy. The book also talks about women defining themselves in terms of their relationships with others. We tend to put our identity in being a wife, a mother, a daughter, a friend, etc. We as women yearn for & spend our time developing meaningful, intimate relationships with the people in our lives...
The reason why we spend so much time on relationships?
Because God desires & seeks out these same types of relationships with His people.....
Making Any Sense?
The heart of a woman is very much like the heart of our God...
He loves us, unconditionally, despite our faults & failures.
In His eyes we are perfect.
He wants that same kind of love & devotion from you & I...
Jesus replied: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and
with all your soul and with all your mind.
Matthew 22:37 (NIV)
I will be doing future posts on this book as I dig further into it...
for those of you who enjoyed this post...
I hope you will come back & learn more!
I would LOVE to hear from you!
Any of my readers out there read this AMAZING book?!?











Great post Tonya! I am so glad that we are walking this journey together and that I have found such a good friend in you! XOXO
ReplyDeleteSo thankful God brought us to the church around the same time and we've been able to get to know you guys! I wish I was going on that retreat this weekend, but I'll definitely be praying for you guys! Also, good for you for taking a risk on the blog and sharing your heart. It's always a little scary to put yourself out there, but it always pays off when you see how it affects others and pleases God. :) Love ya!
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed this post very much. I had never heard of this book but found it on Amazon and I'm buying it for my Kindle! I love that you shared your faith and your journey, and this only makes your blog even more special :)
ReplyDeleteI love this post, and that you were brave to share your faith story. God is good! I love your blog and love it even more now!
ReplyDeleteGod Bless You
Denise
Thank you for sharing your testimony! My husband and I had been actively involved in a church for many years - and then we moved. We have really had a hard time finding a new church, until we started attending church up north in the little town where our cabin is. We feel such a connection to that little congregation that we have decided to make it our home church - even though we're not there every weekend.
ReplyDeleteI think I have that book, but have not read it yet. I have read other books by the Eldridges and have learned much from them.
Thanks again for this post. Keep sharing!
kris at kbpete359@aol.com or kristenbalvin.blogpsot.com
Boo! I had a really long comment and it just POOF!, disappeared! I guess that's my cue to keep it short and simple...
ReplyDeleteI'm so excited that you & your husband found a wonderful church to call home! That is a huge blessing, and one I recently went through too when I moved from Texas to Florida. Getting involved in God's community is crucial to staying accountable to pursuing Christ. My community has literally been my family the past 11 years since my family did not live nearby me.
Thanks for sharing this amazing story - God is good and He gives good things!
What a lovely post! Thank you for sharing so elequantly from your heart about our Savior. I haven't read the book by Stasi but I have read/heard parts of the book by John for men and LOVE those ideas as well!!
ReplyDeleteWrote recently as well about what God means to me,
http://coleplace.blogspot.com/2011/02/questions-for-god.html
Would love to hear from you! Be blessed.
Sounds like an amazing book! Can't wait to read it. My faith has been deepening, and I've been devouring books on faith!! Thanks for sharing your beautiful story!
ReplyDeleteI am so glad that you have found a church where you feel at home, I know how hard that can be. I have not heard of the book but it sounds very interesting what you said makes total sense. I know that I need to put more focus on my relationship with Him.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing this with us Tonya
I'm with the other girls.....excited to share this journey with a group of great women! Looking forward to what God has in store for all of us! Love my small group girls!
ReplyDeleteLove this post Tonya! Peter & I have been "church shopping" here in TN for about 3 months and we are struggling to find a home ourselves. So happy you found one and are creating your relationship with God!
ReplyDeletebeautiful post! thanks for sharing from your heart. I love that book. the lord really taught me a lot through it a few years ago!
ReplyDeleteTonya,
ReplyDeleteI am so happy for the way God has been working in your life! How exciting!
It sounds like you have found an amazing church. What a wonderful book study too.
Thank you for sharing your heart and the beautiful work God is doing in you. May God bless you abundantly!
Luv u, girl!
Traci